How To Stop Letting Your Past Ruin Your Future

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Start Loving Life® Expert Connie Henriquez LOVES to teach people how to start loving life! Connie has a private coaching practice located in Woodbury, NY where she teaches kids & teens how to overcome anxiety, self-doubt and improve their self-esteem in as little as 30 days utilizing her signature "positive psychology" coaching system. For more information on how you can start loving ife®… check out her website
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    Many times, I come across clients who believe that their past is a life sentence.  Little do they know their past can serve as quite the opposite.
    The only reason why most people believe their past is a life sentence is because they have created a habit of negative thinking. All they do is think about the past, reference the past and talk about the past. What they don’t realize is, that is the problem.  The more you focus on, “what you don’t want,” the more you are destined to repeat it.
    Therefore, the more you focus on your past, the more you invite your past “stuff” into your current life or your future life experiences.
    So, the solution is, you MUST start looking towards your future.  That is the only way to move away from your past.  
    What you are thinking NOW is creating how you feel in the moment and what experiences you will attract in your future. This means, it is super important to be deliberate in choosing your thoughts and to ONLY think about the life you want as opposed to the life that you have lived.
    The great part is the more you do this, the better you will feel over time and wilp
l no longer feel resentful about your past.  Instead, you will be thankful for it being the catalyst in allowing you to move towards the very amazing life you want, versus the, “not so fun” life you have been living.
    Imagine that…?