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Kids Have Stress!


Dr. Paulette Nadel, Ed.D. is a professional academic counselor with a private practice specializing in school stress and test anxiety. You can visit her website at www.TestStressHelp.com 
or reach her at DrPaulette@aol.com or 516-445-2104.

We hear very often about adults experiencing stress. Adults aren’t the only ones. Kids experience stress too. Particularly in today’s world, stress and anxiety in children are common problems.  Sometimes the stress and anxiety can carry over to school.  When this happens it can affect learning, grades, performance, and even social activities. 

What can parents do?

First it’s important to be aware and recognize signs of stress and anxiety in our children. Watch for signs such as headaches, stomach aches, sleepiness, or waking up at night. These are common signs that something is going on. Often times, children may want to stay home from school. 

How should parents respond to these signs?

Don’t dismiss your child’s symptoms. Sometimes we say to ourselves they’ll probably just get over this or outgrow it. Sometimes we think it’s just a phase they are going through. The reality though is that we do need to do something. It’s important to let your child know that you are aware and want to help. It’s always good to encourage your child to share and communicate. Listen carefully to what your child says. Let your child know that you love and support him or her. 

Relaxation techniques, exercise and fun activities can be positive influences and help to relieve stress and anxiety. Healthy nutritious meals and a good night’s sleep are very important and contribute to stress reduction. When children feel well they are better equipped to deal with stress and anxiety. Although activities outside of school are important, children shouldn’t be overscheduled. Children need a balance of down time and quiet time along with activities. 

Can stress and anxiety affect school work?

Yes, stress and anxiety can affect school work performance and grades. If you feel your child is experiencing this it may be beneficial to consult a professional academic counselor. A professional academic counselor can help with stress reduction and academic anxiety before grades are affected. A trained professional uses techniques and skills to reduce anxiety and build self-confidence. 

 

Seal Walks


Victoria is an accomplished 12 year old Animal Educator and Journalist recognized by Dowling College for her excellence in the field of Arts and Sciences. Victoria also teaches in schools and libraries where she shares first hand her knowledge and experiences in a series of educational programs that she developed. VictoriasAmazingWorld@yahoo.com

    On Long Island we are lucky to have many nature events and programs that are open to us all year round. At the Theodore Roosevelt Nature Center at Jones Beach State Park you can enjoy many different types of nature events including the annual Seal Walks which take place every weekend from January – March. The walk is open to all ages offering a wonderful opportunity to see the Seals in their natural environment. The walk lasts about an hour and a half and costs $4.00 per person. The kinds of Seals usually seen are the Harbor, Harp and Grey Seals. Although in recent years, "arctic" species such as Hooded and Ringed Seals that were once extremely rare for Long Island have also become more commonly sighted. Throughout the year Jones Beach also offers wildlife watches for Osprey, Striped Bass, Piping Plovers, Fiddler Crabs, Raptors, and many more amazing animals. For more information and to make reservations for the Seal Walks at Jones Beach call (516) 780-3295
    Another great organization that offers Seal Walks and Cruises is the Coastal Research and Education Society of Long Island (CRESLI). The suggested donation to join the walk is $5 per adult, $3 for those under 18. They also offer a seasonal pass which is a great value if you’re planning on participating in many of the walks. CRESLI Seal Walks run now thru May 8th.  To make reservations and for more information on all their animal watching programs go to www.cresli.org
    To watch my video on Seals visit me at www.VictoriasAmazingWorld.com

Victoria’s Fun Facts and Tips:

• Seals are able to hold their breath for a long time during dives, using oxygen stored in the blood and muscles as well as the lungs.

• Harbor Seals have a thick layer of blubber to keep them warm in the cold water.  

• Seals have large eyes which enable them to see quite well both above and below the water.

• Seals have no tear ducts and look like they are crying when observed on land.

• There is a total of 33 species of Seals.

• It’s a good idea to bring a camera with a zoom lens so you can get great pictures. 

• Remember to dress warm because it’s usually cooler by the water.

• Make sure to make reservations and confirm before going on the walk due to the changing winter weather.

"Remember when watching the seals, keep your distance to avoid any danger and harm to you and the seal"

 

Free Yourself From The Flu

 

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates between 3,000 and 49,000 deaths and more than 200,000 hospitalizations each year depending upon the severity of the flu season. People at high risk for developing flu-related complications include children under 5, adults 65 or older, pregnant women, residents of nursing homes and other long-term care centers, and people who have medical conditions such as asthma, chronic lung disease, heart disease and blood disorders.

Getting a flu vaccine and taking anti-viral medica­tions as prescribed if you do contract the flu are two ways the CDC advocates stopping the spread of flu germs. Another vital factor in protecting yourself from the flu is preventing its spread.

The flu is a respiratory infection accompanied by fever and often respiratory complications that is transmitted from person to person, either through personal contact, or through contact with a contami­nated surface. Individuals who have contracted the virus are contagious at least one day prior to displaying symptoms, and up to seven days after they first appear. 

In addition, the flu virus can survive up to 48 hours on stainless steel and plastic surfaces, and up to 12 hours on cloth, paper and tissues. Properly clean­ing and disinfecting can minimize the chances of individuals contracting the virus from a contami­nated surface.

Prevent contamination
    Clean any visible soil from surfaces before dis­infect­ing. When cleaning and disinfecting, work from top to bottom and from cleaner to more heavily soiled surfaces.
    Thoroughly wet the surface with a U.S. EPA registered disinfectant and follow label instruc­tions. Choose disin­fectants effective against the flu virus, such as Ecolab’s line of disinfectant products, which are available for institutional and industrial use.
    Disinfect frequently touched hard surfaces often, including tables, chairs, light switches, door handles and restroom facilities.
    Give special attention to frequently touched sur­faces in food preparation areas, as well as the restroom, including light and air control switches, faucets, toilet flush levers, door knobs and handrails.
    Avoid touching public items that sustain heavy use, such as elevator buttons and push plates on doors, with your hands.

Proper hand hygiene
Hand-washing is also essential to preventing an influenza contamination. Proper hand-washing helps remove most bacteria, viruses and other pathogens, so they can’t be spread to others. The CDC recommends these steps:
    Wet hands with clean, running water (warm or cold), turn off the tap and apply soap.
    Rub hands together to lather the soap. Clean the backs of hands, between fingers and under nails.
    Scrub for at least 20 seconds.
    Rinse well under clean, running water.
    Dry with a clean towel or air dry.
    Before using hand sanitizer, remove any dirt from hands with soap and water. Apply product to palm and rub hands together until it disappears (15-20 seconds).

Education is the first step in promoting effective hand hygiene. But the real challenge is motivating others to wash frequently and follow protocols day in and day out. 

    Use soaps that are gentle on hands. Formulations that irritate skin may dissuade even the most dedicated hand-washer.
•    Be a role model and wash your hands following the same high standard you set for your family and coworkers.
•    Continuously reinforce that protection starts with prevention, and hand-washing is critical to prevention.

Extra care in the kitchen
Because flu and cold viruses can spread easily to foods and beverages, it’s especially important to promote hand-washing in the kitchen. 
 
For additional information on how Ecolab can help you and your business prepare for the flu season, visit ecolab.com/pages/flu.

(Family Features) 

 

2016: The Year You Get The Job You Truly Want


Don Benenson, SPHR, is the owner of MVP Resumes. He has over 30+ years of corporate HR experience and happily helps clients with resume preparation and interviewing skills. He can be reached at 
631-428-5877 or at  mvpresumes@yahoo.com

Why is it that the likelihood of meeting someone who is truly fulfilled at their job is about the same as bumping into Beyoncé in the produce aisle at Stop & Shop?

Let’s face it folks-there are a boatload more people stuck in jobs that at best are a means to an end versus those who are flourishing in jobs where they are fulfilled.  If you’re in the stuck group, then it’s time to make a New Year’s resolution to get you’re act together and get yourself a new gig.

I'm going to give you a simple plan of attack to help you. Let’ s say it’s my GIFT to all job seekers.

G – Get Your Resume And Cover Letter 
Into Super Bowl Shape
Whether you're a recent college grad, a seasoned professional, or workforce returnee in the job market, nothing happens until your phone rings and hiring managers begin finding out if you have the right stuff.  I’m convinced, and you should be as well, that the  quality of your cover letter and resume can and will change the quality of your life. I don't doubt that you can write an adequate resume. Most of my clients can. Unfortunately in today’s super competitive job market adequate resumes don't lead to interviews. Your first goal is to have a compelling story about yourself that makes employers want to learn more.

I – Intelligently Identify Appropriate 
Opportunities
A job search is challenging. Don’t make it feel even more because you haven’t gone through the process of intelligently identifying what you will, as well are will not, consider to be viable opportunities. As I support my clients through this process of crafting a targeted and doable job search plan, I always see a noticeable increase in their positive outlook and a reduction in their level of stress and frustration.
Searching for a job in like archery. You can have expert skills and the finest bow and arrows. But if you really can’t locate the bullseye all the other stuff is irrelevant.

F – Focus on Quality not Quantity
Avoid at all costs the trap that an effective job search is achieved by being a “ resume submitted machine”. Before sending out a single resume, ask yourself the following:

• What would be in a job post that matches up well to what I have on my resume?
• What would be in a job post that would indicate that getting this job would be a bit of a stretch?

By doing this analysis you can quickly identify the job posts you should apply for.  Don’t be shy about applying for stretch jobs. Many employers prefer applicants that don’t have a “perfect” background. They’d rather train a person to do things their way than break the work habits of someone who might have a “been there-done that” mindset.

T – Tune up  Your  interviewing Skills

Both the telephone interview and face to face interview processes are becoming increasingly challenging. No longer are applicant’s being asked general questions or drilled on entries on their resumes. You need to research your perspective employer, research their industry and prepare yourself to come across as a doer and difference maker. Oh, and please stop trying to figure out what the right answers are to interview questions. There are no right answers; there are just your answers.

I hope all job seekers get the jobs they want and deserve in 2016.

 

Whites, Bubbly and the Countdown


Collette is fashion forward and 
design orientated.  Practicing a 
healthy lifestyle, she is a stylist & wardrobe consultant. A Bachelors in communications and marketing, years of experience in the garment district, she celebrates everyday with enthusiasm for fashion and beauty while helping other women achieve their personal best.
Collettep24@yahoo.com     
    The countdown has officially arrived.  With only days left of 2015, we look forward to one of the most fashionable nights of the old year AND the New Year.  The reality is almost anything goes.  New Year’s Eve is the night to tap into your inner sparkle and shine your brightest.
    When entertaining at home you sure can (and should) be the star.  The beauty of staying home is you can bare skin and turn the heat on.  A helpful hint is to start with a little self tanner a few days before.  No need to worry about coordinating coats and outerwear.  Try a sleeveless flirty top, or dive into a snuggly bustier, not to worry about dodging arctic temps.  Also, a great opportunity to do a halter or sheer tank.   Try pairing with a fun swing skirt or if you want to get on your Scarlet O’Hara, take a twirl in your full-length skirt for a real festive feel.  Always add in an element of sparkle.  At home no need for a clutch, so glitter up on a belt, statement necklace or arm jewels with an abundance of sparkle to it.
   Ok so we know how fantastic black looks and feels when we wear it.  If you are headed out for the evening (that crept up on us as it does year after year) we reach for the black dress.  The LBD never lets us down and saves us from assaulting the closet.  The dress may rock sequins, sultry spaghetti straps, or lace.  The black dress will always work and will be right on trend. But guess what?  Its New Years Eve and it’s a winter wonderland!  Try white, white, or white.  That’s right, designers love white this New Years Eve.  Coupled with gorgeous gold draping jewels.  What a statement this look makes and what other color proves such promise for the New Year!  Indulge yourself in a champagne color if you’re not feeling the lux white.  Pair it up with the bronzes and you will glimmer the night away.  A white vanilla sweater dress, eccentric metallic coated white jeans, sexy silk, or even a white flouncy faux fur all have the wow factor.  All you snow angels will have the crowd mesmerized!
     Embrace a new chapter in life while reflecting on the past chapters.  Light up the party and be the shinning star you are.   Grab your glass of bubbly and toast to the new hopes and the past blessings.  Have a very Happy and Healthy New Year!

 

A View From The Exit Row…


Claudia Fenner is a writer, photographer and travel enthusiast who is a stay home mom of three in Dix Hills.  She loves to plan her family’s vacations and helping her friends and relatives with their vacation ideas.
    It seems all we hear these days about airline travel is how you are being pinched, squeezed and charged for every perk that used to be free.  On a recent trip to Europe I decided to make note of our entire transatlantic experience on Delta Air Lines. I was pleasantly surprised by all the amenities that were provided to us in our “Main Cabin” seating.. formerly known as Coach. The food seemed plentiful, it was served round trip with a smile, and dare I say I felt a bit pampered?
    Upon finding our seat we saw that waiting for us was a blanket, earphones and an eye mask. After the always soothing and cheerful “welcome aboard” announcement from the Captain and a relatively short taxi we were up, up and away en route to Venice!  
     Almost immediately the dinner service began. The drink cart came first where all drinks whether alcoholic or soft were free.  Right on the heels of the drink cart came the food.  We had a choice of three entrées, beef, chicken or pasta.  I chose a kale salad with a grilled chicken breast. Included with the main course were a fresh fruit salad, chocolate brownie, cheese and crackers, and a pretzel roll.  Tea and coffee came out next, the cabin lights were dimmed and a quiet lull descended as everyone tried to get some sleep.  
     About an hour before landing the lights came back on and breakfast was being served.  A box with “Bon Appetit” emblazoned on it was given out to everyone that contained a yogurt, orange juice, a croissant, a cookie and a breath mint that made me chuckle.  Coffee and tea followed and it was time to land.
     Our nonstop flight back to JFK from Venice offered similar food choices except with extra snacks thrown in, as the majority of westbound transatlantic flights are flown during daylight hours.  It’s something I affectionately refer to as “the eternal day.”
     There was the large main meal of 3 lunch choices, along with 2 rounds of snacks.  The first snack served in the “bon appétit box” was cheese with crackers and chocolate.  The second snack consisted of ice cream, and a baked pastry with a choice of meat or vegetable filling.  Each time the food carts came thru you were offered complimentary drinks hard or soft. There were strong headwinds that day and our flying time back home was a long 9 hours.  We arrived happy, relaxed, and pleasantly full.
    “I have to say that flying on Air Force One sort of spoils you for coach on a regular airline.”  Ronald Reagan

 

Let’s Squash Winter


Denise Gianatasio is a Northport Village resident and freelance writer. She is a licensed agent at Signature Premier Properties, 172 Main Street, Northport 631-754-3600. Denise enjoys cooking and sharing her recipes and family stories, as she wants to inspire a warm sense of home with her readers. Please feel free to contact her for any advice you may need at  dishinwithdenise@yahoo.com.

YEP!  Winter’s coming…so let’s squash it head on!  Winter butternut squash meets winter acorn squash and… smash into a smooth and mellow wintery soup. The combination of these vegetables roasted together and combined, blend into a delicious, spiced, satisfying soup for the soul. Anyway you spoon it… hot soup on a chilly day feels warm and comforting. A real superfood soup, rich and sweet, this meal is a great source of vitamins A, C, E, B6, alpha tocopherol, thiamin, niacin, folate, calcium, magnesium, and potassium. A super nutritious and healthy soup to warm you and fill you up.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
4 butternut squash (peeled and cut into chunks) remove seeds or wash and bake whole
4 acorn squash washed and baked whole
2-3 fresh carrots

Put vegetables onto greased cookie sheet and roast for 1 hour or until soft. Remove skin and scoop out insides. Remove seeds. 

1/2 stick of butter
4T of extra virgin olive oil
6 sweet Italian sausage links, (decased)
2-3 hot Italian sausage links (decased)
1 large can of chicken broth/stock
2 small leeks sliced, (using some of the green part)
1 small bunch of scallions sliced
1 whole shallot chopped
½ t nutmeg
½ t cinnamon 
White pepper
1 T mace 
Fresh black pepper
1 T each fresh chopped parsley and sage 
2 cups of ½ and ½
Pinch of cayenne
Salt to taste

In a sauté pan (as squashes are baking) add leeks, shallots, scallions and sausage meat and sauté till onions are soft and meat is brown and broken into pieces. Now add butter and spices and cook for a minute more. Using cooled squash blend meat mixture and squash in blender adding chicken broth to each batch. Put into soup pot and add ½ and ½ and taste for spices. NOW… Ladle into soup bowls, grab your favorite spoon and soothe your soul!  Get squashed this Winter! (Be wise! Freeze some for after the holidays) I got started and bought these cool pottery soup spoons from a friend. A local amazing sculptor and potter, artist~ Pam Smith. Clay Daisy Pottery Studio (potters@2optonline.net) Enjoy, xo Denise

 

Sand City Brewery – Northport’s Hidden Gem


Joe Alicata is a 2009 graduate of Northport High School, he has his B.A. in Public Administration from the University at Albany. Joe works in the insurance industry, is a member of the Advisory Board for the Northport High School Academy of Finance (AOF) program, and is a Director for 
Northport Student's Mean Business. He can be reached at etrestaurants@gmail.com
    Tucked away down a long alley between the imposing façade of a bank and the reserved storefront which houses the Wine Bar on Main lies one of the newest additions to the beer scene on the North Shore: Sand City Brewing Co. Opened in October 2015, Sand City is the brainchild of CEO and head brewer, Kevin Sihler. 
    To date, Sand City has only a handful of beers to their name, all of which are available on tap in the tasting room, or in growlers to take home  for  your next social engagement. The five available beers, listed on the wall on chalkboard planks are Tafelbier (Belgian table beer), Red Sand (hoppy amber), Day Drifter (Oatmeal IPA), Black IPA and Southdown Breakfast Stout. You can choose from a glass of one, or go for the flight as I did, which gives you a good sized sample of each. 
    First on my flight was the Tafelbier: a bright beer with a clean finish and slightly fruity undertone, its an overall tasty table beer which would go good with most any meal outside of tangy sauces (like tomato sauce), a solid choice for most dining engagements and overall highly drinkable. 
    Moving along, I came to the Red Sand hoppy amber. The Red Sand is well bodied and flavorful, with the hoppy notes being pronounced but not overpowering. As far as pairing goes, this beer would go well with a burger or other red meat meal. 
    Next on the docket we have the Day Drifter Oatmeal IPA. Upon first taste, Day Drifter is sweet, and finishes with a smoky touch. There is a good amount of hop flavor, and the overall flavor profile is strong and pronounced. This is a beer I would drink by itself, unless much beer has been consumed before that juncture is reached in which case all bets are off. 
    Following up the Day Drifter was the Black IPA. When they say “Black IPA” they mean Black IPA. If you like your beers opaque, this is for you. At first I locked eyes with this glass thinking “this thing is going to dominate my mouth, buckle up kids”. Much to my surprise and the delight of my palate, the Black IPA has a smoky flavor with a strong hoppy note and despite those two strong flavors, it still has a nice refreshing finish to it which is admittedly surprising given that it is an IPA and it cannot be seen through. 
    Finally, I came upon the Southdown Breakfast Stout. Breakfast stouts are an interesting brew, and most of you are likely familiar with Founder’s iteration of the brew. Sand City’s take is a smooth, dark stout with well-defined coffee and chocolate flavors. This would best be served with a comfort food type of meal such as a stew or soup on a cold winter evening.
    I managed to get a quick word with the Head Brewer himself on my way out. Mr. Sihler informed me that things have been going very well for them since they opened back in October and that they currently are working on a Belgian Blonde Ale and a Rye IPA, completion and release date TBA. 
    Overall if you are looking for a nice way to spend some time on a winter afternoon or want to snag a growler of tasty local beer, head in to Sand City Brewing Co. in Northport and check out what they have to offer.

 

Begin Again


Kristin has been working in the natural products industry for over fifteen years as an expert in holistic beauty products, nutrition and supplements. Also a fitness instructor, she is passionate about the mental and physical benefits of fitness and encourages people to reach their goals while having fun. She just completed her first book, a memoir. Follow her on Twitter @kristinjoylavin or visit her website: www.kristinjoylavin.com

By the time you read this, like me, you’ve had your fair share of holiday sweets, treats and meats. It seems like at every holiday gathering champagne and chocolate cake are calling my name.

The holiday sugar fog is beginning to lift. It’s a new year and it’s time to begin again. 

Here are some ideas to get you rolling in the right direction.

Skip the “for a limited-time holiday” lattes and sugared up frappes. Instead choose an herbal or green tea or a fresh squeezed juice from your own juicer or the local juice bar. You’ll still get a nice pick me up without the blood sugar imbalance.

Donate extra, unopened goodies and sweets to the local food pantry. They can always use extras for gatherings and desserts.

Get back into your exercise routine or begin a new one to mix it up. Yoga, Zumba, HIIT, racquetball, tennis and swimming are fun ways to pass the time while tightening and toning.

Go veg or vegan one day a week. It gives your digestive track a day to not work so hard in digesting heavy proteins and animal products. Try a three-bean chili.

Begin a meditation practice or have quiet time for five minutes a day. After such a hectic time, our minds and bodies become conditioned to “busyness” and distractions. Cleansing the mind and soul is just as important as cleansing the body and it’s organs.

Invest in some organic beauty products. We are exposing ourselves to hundreds of chemicals per day just through our beauty routine! Shop at your local health food store and pick up a chemical free shampoo, conditioner, facial wash and moisturizer to start with. You will see a difference in your skin and hair. I use John Masters Organics.

With winter in full force, it’s crucial to keep our immune systems functioning properly. Supplements can help support that. My top picks are a good B complex, Vitamins D & C, Omega 3 from fish oil, acidophilus for tummy health and calcium/magnesium. 

Lastly, in a world where we are bombarded with news and drama, begin an E-sabbatical. Whether you choose a whole day or just in the evenings, take a break from the electronic world. Enjoy time with family, pets, in nature, playing a game and reading a good book. It’s far more rewarding, less addictive and will give your eyes and brain a well-deserved break.

Post Holiday Tip: Spend your gift cards or cash gifts on the gift of health to yourself. Investing in organic beauty products, a gym membership, yoga classes, vitamins, a facial or massage will be the gift with lasting benefits.

 

A New Year 2016


Natalie Weinstein is President of 
Natalie Weinstein Design Associates, 
The Natalie Weinstein Home 
Decorating Club and Uniquely Natalie, 
a quality consignment outlet. Hear 
Natalie’s design tips on WALK 97.5 FM, enjoy her Long Island Focus featured in House Magazine or call: 631.862.6198

In all my years as a designer and speaker, January has represented the clean slate and the time to make and try not to break New Year’s resolutions.  The top of the list for everyone, of course, is clean up the clutter and start a diet and exercise program.
  
So as we begin the anew, let’s explore the ways we can keep our new year’s resolutions and reach our goals.

1. Since success breeds success, if we start with a small achievable action like cleaning out one drawer or the refrigerator, our feeling of accomplishment will act as a prompt for the next.  They say that if we repeat a positive action for 30 days, it becomes a habit.  If that’s true, we could actually have a clean basement or lose 15 pounds in a month!

2. Don’t be undermined when we fall off the wagon.  So we ate the brownie (or two) or left all our stuff in the dining room. That doesn’t mean we’re doomed for life and it’s not a license to continue the bad habit.  Starting over is what the New Year is all about.

3. Reward yourself for positive action and not with a hot fudge sundae.  How about inviting friends over to an uncluttered den or buying a new outfit in a smaller size or finding and wearing a “too small” favorite from the back of the closet?

4. Turn the chore into fun.  Join a dance class instead of going to a gym, if dancing makes you happy.  Swap recipes for healthier meals if you love to cook (and eat).

5. Find a buddy for positive reinforcement so you can celebrate achievements and support one another when failure looms.

6. Keep your sense of humor (or develop one if that’s your resolution) and don’t allow negative thoughts to undermine goals. 

7. Be specific about what you are actually trying to achieve.  

8. Worry less.  Be happy with who you are and the blessings you have.  The cup ½ full is a better attitude to accomplish anything even if life’s challenges seem to be overwhelming.

9. Let’s spread a little joy and try being really nice to people who may not deserve it and of course, to those who do. The response might surprise and even amaze and the positive vibes will definitely ramp us up.

10.. So my dear readers, why not ring in 2016 with a smile and a resolve to do what we can to make things better for us and those we care about? If we start with ourselves and work our way out, our homes and the world can only be a better place.

 

Don’t Stuff More Weight Into Your Stockings!


Phil Sottile is a 20-year veteran of the Applied Fitness and Exercise Sciences, hosts the “Intelligent Way to Fitness” on LI Cablevision since 2005, published a book on relationship management, and owns/operates one of Long Island’s “Best Gyms,” with his wife, Stacey. 
phil@intelligentfitness.net

    The holidays are a time to celebrate the relationships of friends, families, and those for whom we care. The typical scenario usually surrounds the event of eating, drinking and being merry! We usually attend a cornucopia of parties, get-togethers, and holiday celebrations that pass hors d’oeuvres, glasses of wines, and other various “finger foods” right under our proverbial noses. The temptation to eat overcomes us lest we become the pariah of the party!  Therefore, it is commonplace etiquette and proper to enjoy the offerings of our host and be thankful for having received the invite.

    HOWEVER…this etiquette does not come without a price. That price can be an overload of additional calories that we do not account for in our daily regimen, and that excess leads to unwanted pounds. This means that we must be mindful of our food intake, not only for the day, but the total number of days in a given week that we are straying from “healthy habits.”  

    To combat this – and at risk of providing advice that may or may not contradict your current health requirements – consider the following as “guidance,” and not firm prescription (as everyone’s particular scenario may call for individualized directives.)

• Watch the carbohydrates intake:  When we overload carbohydrates into our system, they will need to be broken down into a simpler form (glucose) and stored in the body’s liver, muscles/cells, and blood. The body can only store so many “carbs” and one can easily overload the body, causing a bloating feeling and increasing the likelihood of storing itself as fats in the blood or in cells.  

• Solution: REDUCE CARBS INTAKE the day BEFORE the event and the day of the event.  For approximately 36 hours, keep your meals/intake to vegetables, lean proteins, and fibrous forms of carbohydrates that tend to pass through the body indigested. (Look for labels that have a larger percentage of the carbohydrate calories that come from Fiber.)  This way, your body will be required to “empty” some of the body’s carbohydrate storage allowing room for new glucose to be stored (from your party’s simple carbohydrate intake.)  This will not solve your “world’s problems,” but at least, you will reduce the likelihood of overloading your body with sugar and calories that may become new and unwanted extra pounds!

• DRINK WATER BEFORE YOU EAT: Before going to your event, drink 8-16oz of warm water. The water will fill your stomach, signaling your brain that you are “full.”  That way, you will (likely) consume LESS total calories overall.

• STICK TO THE PROTEIN OFFERINGS: How about shrimp with a touch of cocktail sauce? Vegetables (like celery and tomatoes) with a side of crackers and a hint of dip? If you stick more to the crunchy vegetables (like peppers and celery,) you can balance your carbohydrate intake with a glass of wine or two without throwing your whole week out of whack!

• EXERCISE THAT MORNING: Hit the bike or eliptical! At a minimum, if you can burn 250-350 calories in the morning, you can offset the extra intake that is inevitable at the party you are going to that night. You won’t make any extra headway in your fitness goals, but maybe you won’t get far behind either!?

    The holidays are a challenging time for fitness go-ers and those people attempting to control weight or avoid temptation. However, you can have your cake (AND also eat it) if you leverage a little bit of strategy and a little bit of exercise until the New Year Resolutions kick in and you need to really dive into your disciplined fitness programming.  

    In the meantime, enjoy your December with family and friends. You may not combat your weight loss goals this month, but at least you will have a measured balance of naughty and nice!