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Home & Garden: A New Year Plan

January and the new year remind us all of the possibility of new beginnings for ourselves and our family. We resolve to live better, be healthier, more organized, more focused, more _____ (you fill in the blank). Yet most of these resolutions dissolve by February or sooner. Is it because we want to be all of these but don’t actually have a plan or do we just have unrealistic expectations?

Over the many years I have been a designer and I have given seminars on clutter control and organization, (mostly in January!) I’ve listened to countless married couples in crisis because one spouse is the neat freak and the other is the ____ (well you know). Hoarders notwithstanding, (that’s another issue altogether,) I have been able to help folks to more comfortable co-habiting by a few simple rules.

The first order of business is to acknowledge that a clean, organized, clutter free home is healthier, more efficient, less costly and more ego building than one that is not. It all starts with this affirmation and then a plan – a realistic one with short term goals and long-term goals. Each goal achieved will spur you on to do more. Cleaning out the entire garage, attic, walk-in closet, kitchen cabinets, etc. can be a great goal long-term, but probably won’t ever actually be accomplished if it overwhelms you in its entirety. (Where to start – not enough time-energy-motivation?) If, however, a huge task is broken down into smaller parts, with a clear action – you’ve got a great shot at success!  

So, create the plan – not in your head – but on paper, and set aside the time to accomplish one of the individual tasks you’ve listed. Pick one thing that bothers you most, then cross it off your list when it’s done. (That feels great in itself). Your list can also involve designating a specific day of the week to tackle repetitive tasks, for example: Monday could be laundry day, Tuesday-cleaning day, Wednesday-bill pay, Thursday-errands, Friday-food shopping, Saturday cooking and kitchen cleanup, Sunday-no work!

What about things you can accomplish in ten minutes – getting rid of trash, opening the mail and sorting it, cleaning off kitchen counters, cleaning the entry area, hanging up clothing, putting away clean laundry? When you don’t let things pile up, tasks can actually be accomplished in ten minutes!

So, what do you think? Once you begin and find success – you will want to continue – and even start that diet, have friends over without worrying about “what people will say”, and feel good about how your surroundings make you feel. So, ring in 2025 and get started!

Travel: California Dreamin’ – A Trip Down the PCH Is Like Nothing Else

My husband and I just returned from a much-needed vacation. We decided to fly across the country, rent a car, and drive down US1, the Pacific Coast Highway. We were less interested in cities we would encounter than small beach towns along the way. Further, we wanted to avoid any sense of being rushed. That’s why we chose the US1 (PCH) – while the slowest route south, it provides scenery and sites like nothing we’ve ever seen before. 

Some planning is worthwhile. Be sure to have Waze on your phone to be aware of any construction along the way. Bring water and snacks…even if you stop to load up the car. And be planful about filling the tank. There are a lot of miles between town, and some are without a gas station at all. 

I’m believe in maximizing travel days, so we booked the first flight of the day. That enabled us to fly into San Francisco, get our luggage, and pick up the car all by midday. We were on our way. If you are flying out early, be sure to make the most of your first day so it does not become ‘dead’ time. We started with the perfunctory trip over the Golden Gate Bridge. Once across, stop at the picture spot for gorgeous vistas, great photo ops, and a chance to stretch. You may want to head a few miles north from there to see Sausalito, a sleepy little beach town with some nice options for your first meal. That was our path, and we have no regrets. If you enjoy beautiful outdoor spaces, follow our footsteps by heading back to the Bay Area to spend hours walking through Golden Gate State Park and the famed Japanese Gardens. Fisherman’s Wharf, quirky and scenic, is a worthwhile spot for the afternoon. A ride up in the ferris wheel at sunset offers excellent views for miles. If you want to visit Alcatraz, set aside a full day for the experience. If you’re a foodie, you’ll enjoy dining in San Francisco where you will find everything from Michelin stars to food trucks.

We headed south and spent time in Half Moon Bay, a charming little town with beach access, a lovely Main Street, and very friendly people. We stayed at a small inn with beautiful rooms each heated by a fireplace and appointed with lavish old-world décor. Boutique shops, gorgeous murals, and delightful architecture will delight you here. 

Along the coast you’ll find small spots to pull off US1 for stunning views and places to explore or surf. The natural landscapes are very different from the east coast and simply breathtaking. We made stops in several small towns – Davenport (shark fin shaped rock formations in the ocean), Santa Cruz (home of the UCSC banana slugs), Capitola (I loved it here and the pastel houses on the beach are lovely), Carmel (think fairytale land), Big Sur, and San Luis Obispo. Each has its own flavor and are worth a visit – whether for an hour or a day. Spend an afternoon at the extraordinary Hearst Castle. Before moving on, stop up the road to see the elephant seals lounging on the beach. Pismo Beach was a great stop en route south. If you’re as lucky as we were, you’ll get to enjoy a surfing competition in addition to taking in the relaxed and incredibly friendly vibe of this beachside community. 

After visiting Santa Barbara (CA’s historic and Hamptons-like town), LA and Anaheim are the next big stop. We chose to limit our time in LA as there is too much to see and it’s a very different vacation. Instead, we spent a day visiting Disneyland before heading down to Encinitas and San Diego. Perfect weather, peaceful beaches, great shopping, and friendly people made this a favorite place of ours. Be sure to see sunrise or sunset at Imperial Beach or Sunset Cliffs; we stopped at both for the most remarkable sunsets we’ve ever witnessed. 

There is so much more that we saw and did as we spent nearly two weeks working our way down the coast. But space here is limited and I wanted to give you the highlights in case you are planning your own road trip. If you decide to take the trip, I hope it’s as special for you as it was for us.

The Baking Coach: Cinnamon Swirl Cookies

Cinnamon Swirl Cookies

Yield: 12 CookiesBaking Temperature: 350 degrees – Baking Time: 15 minutes

YOU WILL NEED :


  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • ½ teaspoon baking powder
  • ¼ teaspoon table salt
  • ½ stick unsalted butter at room temperature
  • ¼ cups + 2 tablespoons granulated sugar
  • 1 egg at room temperature
  • ½ teaspoon vanilla extract
  • ½ tablespoon ground cinnamon

HERE’S HOW YOU DO IT :


Preheat your oven to 350 degrees.

Line a cookie sheet with parchment paper.

In a medium-sized bowl, mix together flour, baking powder, and salt; set aside.

Using an electric mixer on a medium to low setting, in a large bowl, cream butter and sugar together until light and fluffy. Beat in egg scraping down the sides of the bowl.   

Slowly pour in the flour mixture until fully combined.

In a small bowl, combine the cinnamon sugar ingredients. Remove ¼ of the dough and mix in the cinnamon sugar. Flatten both portions of dough into a dis.  Place the cinnamon dough on top of the plain dough, roll up into a log and twist. Using your hands, roll cookie dough into 1 ½ -inch balls, then flatten slightly. Place cookies on a prepared cookie sheet about 2 inches apart. Bake in the oven for 15 minutes, or until lightly golden-brown at the edges. Cool for 5 minutes on minutes before transferring to cool on a wire rack. Store in an airtight container for 7 days if they are not all gone by then!  

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Personal Development: New Year. New You!

Forget resolutions! There’s no need to go crazy or start swearing off chocolate. Instead, I want you to go easy on yourself and begin incorporating a new positive daily habit that will make all the difference.

The most important one?

Create a solid morning routine. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve talked to clients who describe their mornings as rushed. Yikes! Just think—if you start your day rushed, what kind of energy are you creating for the rest of it? What kind of day are you attracting? You guessed it—rushed, overwhelmed, and stressful. And let’s be honest, that’s no fun for anyone.

So, what can you do?

Reevaluate your current morning routine. As someone who proudly admits I am NOT a morning person, I will still get up as early as needed to avoid rushing. I prefer to “leisurely” prepare for my day, even if it means setting my alarm a little earlier.

Ask yourself: Are you giving yourself enough time in the morning? Based on everything you need to do, how much time do you realistically need to get ready?

Here’s an example of my routine—not because you should copy it, but to get your mind going and give you some food for thought:

I always plan to wake up two and a half hours before I need to leave the house. This may sound like a lot, but let me break it down. If I need to leave at 9:00 a.m., my morning looks like this:

6:30 a.m. I wake up. Sometimes I set my alarm for 6:15 a.m., knowing I’ll snooze for 15 minutes. There’s something about that “warning alarm” that helps me avoid the shock of waking up suddenly from a deep sleep. That’s just me—LOL.

6:30–7:15 a.m. I go downstairs and have two cups of coffee (Keurig’s Paul Newman blend is my favorite!) During this time, I don’t go on my phone. Instead, I mentally prepare for the day. I might read a self-help book or do my Start Loving Life list, where I write down 10 things I appreciate or love about myself. My focus during this time is to feel my best and relax while enjoying my coffee.

7:15–7:30 a.m. I used to feed and walk my Chihuahua, Pumps. Sadly, last month, after a long and happy 16 years, he went to Heaven. I share this to highlight the importance of planning time for your pets. Caring for animals takes time, and you don’t want to rush. Luckily, my husband Jeff (my “hunnies”) gets up before me and feeds our five indoor cats and 10 outdoor (fixed) community cats (yes, ten!) But if he’s away, I plan for this too.

7:30–8:30 a.m. I make my bed, shower, do my makeup, hair and get dressed. I always know what I’m wearing ahead of time—decided the night before—because I, too, have been guilty of trying on 10 outfits in the morning before finding “the one.” That takes way too much time and will stress you out.

While getting ready, I listen to fun, inspiring music to prepare my mental state and set a positive vibe for the day. No sad songs here—wink!

8:30–9:00 a.m. I wrap up my routine. If I’m running a few minutes behind, it’s no big deal because I’ve built in extra time. During this window, I pack my work bag, grab a bottle of water, check the temperature to decide on a jacket, and even think about my car—does it need gas? If it does, I’ll leave a little earlier.

Now, you might be thinking, “Con, that’s a lot of time for a morning routine!” And I get it—you don’t need to do the same as me. But think about this: What could you do differently to ensure you’re preparing yourself and your day in the best way possible? When I leave the house, I feel good and ready. That’s exactly how I want you to feel, too.

So, commit to yourself. Take a moment to reflect on your morning routine and figure out how you can set yourself up for success. Once you do, your days will start to shift. You’ll feel better, and you’ll attract better—all because you made a point to feel good first.

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UPCLOSE: Gabriella’s Nursery & Garden Center

366 Larkfield Road, East Northport, NY 11731 | 631-368-0927
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At Gabriella’s Nursery & Garden Center, the Patti family—Dominick, Phil, and Lori—are not only committed to offering the finest selection of fresh flowers and plants, but to serving their local community with dedication.

Whether you’re planning a wedding, celebrating the holidays, or honoring a loved one, Gabriella’s offers beautifully handcrafted floral arrangements that express your emotions with elegance. Beyond flowers, Gabriella’s has quickly become a local favorite for all things festive, providing everything you need to make every season or gathering memorable.

Founded in April 2024 and named after Phil’s daughter Gabriella, the nursery has blossomed into a year-round hub for horticultural excellence. Gabriella’s offers home décor, gifts, firewood, holiday items, and a full-service florist. A true family business, Gabriella’s draws on over 70 years of combined experience from the Patti family’s other ventures—Dom’s Landscaping and Domco Lawn Sprinklers in Garden City Park, managed by the Patti family’s eldest sister, Michelle Patti-Farino. Patriarch and proud papa, Dominick, states, “We don’t know everything, but we know enough! When my kids were growing up, they truly believed their last name was ‘Landscaping!’”

At Gabriella’s, every floral arrangement is a testament to the artistry and passion of master designers Lori and Nancy. Specializing in personalized wedding arrangements, parties, and thoughtful memorials and tributes, they pour their devotion into creating stunning bouquets, centerpieces, and tributes that beautifully reflect the unique essence of the occasion. With an ever-evolving selection of fresh flowers, plants, and decorative accents, Lori and Nancy craft floral expressions that add depth and meaning to life’s most significant moments. Whether you’re celebrating a joyous milestone or honoring a loved one, Gabriella’s ensures each design captures the perfect sentiment with beauty and care.

Left to right: Lori, Dominick, Phil

“Our team is the heartbeat of Gabriella’s,” says Lori. “From Kathleen, our skilled horticulturist who ensures all our plants are grown with care, to Karen, who handles our digital landscape renderings and designs, to Jorge and Marcelle, our knowledgeable nursery associates who are always ready to help customers find what they need, and finally, Courtney, our brilliant buyer who selects all our trees, shrubs, annuals, and perennials… Every member plays an essential role in bringing our vision to life, and I couldn’t do this without them every day.”

Known locally as the “Glass Dome House,” Gabriella’s is more than just a florist—it’s a community hub. Jorge states, “It’s incredibly rewarding working with the Patti family. Their commitment to revitalizing and maintaining this landmark and space for the neighborhood is inspiring. It’s a place where people can come and enjoy nature, one another, and I am so proud to be part of that.”

This holiday season, Gabriella’s features a wonderful array of items, from Christmas trees and wreaths to cemetery blankets and poinsettias. The Patti family also invites you to bring the kids for a holiday photo with Santa—an annual tradition that adds extra magic to the season. “We love seeing families gather together here,” says Lori. “It’s all about creating special moments, and we’re honored to be part of that experience.” So, if you forgot to press the submit button on your holiday card order, mark your calendars for December 14th and 15th for the perfect photo op.

Gabriella’s Nursery & Garden Center is more than just a business—it’s a family tradition rooted in love and a passion for landscaping and floral design. Visit Gabriella’s today at 366 Larkfield Road in East Northport to experience the power of flowers for every season and every reason.

 

By Jaclyn Holzmaier

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